Togetherness Therapy Clinician Resources

Resources & Worksheets

General Sex Therapy:
– Virtual Workshop:

Come As You Are Podcast
– Book: What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About by Sex Dr. Buehler
– Book: Sexual Healing by Keesling
– Book: Systemic Sex Therapy by Weeks & Gambescia

– Video: Sexual Intelligence: A New View of Sexual Function and Satisfaction
Business Marketing:
– Podcast: Claiming Your Expertise Podcast
– Podcast: Build Your Practice Quickly
– Podcast: Setting Fees
– Podcast: Taking Time Off As A Business Owner
– Podcast: Mindset Shifts For Entrepreneurs

– Video: Successful Practices: How to Build One and How CAMFT Can Help
– Video: Your Dream Private Practice: How to Have More Ease, More Time Off, and More Profit
– Assisted Loving: The Journey Through Sexuality and Aging by Ginger Manley
AARP Aging Resources
– Hope Springs (Movie)
– Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex by Joan Price
5 Changes to Expect for Your Senior Sex Life
Anxiety and Depression Association of America
Relaxation Exercises
– The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook
– The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne
– Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks by Barry McDonagh
Do you suffer from an anxiety disorder?
– Assessment: Are you asexual?
– Video: Research Highlights – The Asexuality Identification Scale
Becoming A Therapist:
– Let’s Talk About Sex: Real Stories from a Therapist’s Office by Ann-Marlene Henning
– Becoming Myself by Irvin D. Yalom
– The Gift of Therapy by Irvin D. Yalom
– Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
– The Family Crucible by Augustus Napier and Carl Whitaker
How to Become a Sex Therapist
Black Mental Health:
Black Emotional and Mental Health Collective
Harriets Apothecary Blog
– Instagram @nedratawwab
Breakups and Divorce:
– Choosing ME Before for We: Every Woman’s Guide to Life and Love by Christine Arulo
– The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents by Melody Beattie
– Something Gained by Deb Purdy
– Conscious Uncoupling by Katherine Woodward Thomas
– The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
Headspace for meditation (also Netflix has a headspace meditation show)
– Instagram @yourbreakupbestie
How to Get Over The End of a Relationship | Antonio Pascual-Leone | TEDxUniversityofWindsor
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy & Cognitive Processing Therapy:
ABC Worksheet
Challenging Questions Worksheet
Patterns of Problematic Thinking Worksheet
Challenging Beliefs Worksheet
PTSD Weekly Assessment
– The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
– The Sex Starved Marriage by Michele Davice-Weiner
– Reconcilable Differences by Andrew Christensen, Brian D. Doss, and Neil S. Jacobson
– The Seven Levels of Intimacy by Matthew Kelley
– How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich
Ripped Bodice Bookstore (Small Business for Romantic/Erotic Books)
– Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship by Snyder Stephen
Working on Your Relationship Alone
How distressed is your marriage?
Coral: App with guided lessons in sexual health
Brené Brown on Blame
Ian Kerner: The Desire Discrepancy | In goop Health Sessions
The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

Infidelity Resources Esther Perel (Ask Rossana)
– Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Relationship Goals
– Instagram @togethernesstherapy
Stephen Jenkinson – The Meaning of Death
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance
– What to Do When Someone You Love is Depressed by Susan Goland & Mitch Golant
Are you depressed?
Domestic Abuse / Intimate Partner Abuse:
The National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7 Confidential)
CAVCB You can receive compensation if you have been a victim of a crime and have a police report number (or are willing to make a police report)
Female Sexuality:
– Come As You Are: The Surprising Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

Labia Library
10 Things You Don’t Know About Orgasm
Pelvic Floor Intro
Coral: App with guided lessons in sexual health
Kink Guidelines for Clinicians
The Pleasure Chest Workshop Events
Los Angeles LGBT Center Health Resources
Asexuality Documentary
– The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World by Alan Downs
Are you asexual?
Coral: App with guided lessons in sexual health
– National Queer & Trans Therapists of Color Network: Mental Health Funds
Love Addiction:
– Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love by Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells, & Keither Miller
– Find SLAA Meetings Near You
Are you addicted to love?
Male Sexuality:
– The Mask of Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships and Live Their Fullest Lives by Lewis Howes
Size Fact & Fictions
Coral: App with guided lessons in sexual health
Premarital Counseling:
– The Conscious Bride: Women Unveil Their True Feelings about Getting Hitched by Sheryl Paul
Self Esteem:
Self Esteem Poem “I Am Me”
Goal Setting
– The Self-Esteem Workbook Book by Glenn R. Schiraldi
Sex/Porn Addiction:
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes
– Facing the Shadows: Sex Addiction Workbook by Patrick Carnes

– Find SAA Meetings Near You
Porn Related Sexual Dysfunctions
How Long Does it Take to Recover From Porn Addiction?
A Mind Map for Sex and Porn Addiction
Secret Life of Secrets

Sexual Assault Survivors:
– The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis
– The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk
– (TRIGGER WARNING) 10 Sessions Podcast
Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network (RAINN)
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
CAVCB You can receive compensation if you have been a victim of a crime and have a police report number (or are willing to make a police report)
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
What is vaginismus, what causes it and how can it be treated?
How to Use Vaginal Dilators – Intimate Rose
Where Does the Vaginal Dilator go? How Far in Should it Go? – Intimate Rose
Other Resources:
National Institute of Mental Health
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
Alcohol Rehab Help
Art With Impact
Find a Therapist (Other than Togetherness Therapy):
Low Fee Counseling – Open Counseling
Low fee Counseling – Open Path
Black Psychotherapists
QTPoC Therapists
Spanish Speaking Therapists
AASECT Certified Sex Therapists
– All other needs can be found using filters on

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